Some food for thought:
Perhaps it is better to be in flux than to be in balance. A balance can be thrown off by the slightest of weight, causing it to wobble and tilt too much to one side or the other. Too much of anything can’t be a good thing.
To be in flux would mean to let all components enmesh with one another, to let things flow seamlessly and integrate with any oncoming objects. Instead of restraining two parts and making them become equal, let them fuse and take their natural course. Not everything can be under constant control.
The heart and the mind are not mutually exclusive entities; they feed off of one another and are in habitual communication. They are not always equal in strength; at times the heart can overpower the mind and vice versa. To balance these two would mean to restrain one and have another grow beyond its means. This is disturbing the innate characteristics of the two, which then leads to internal conflict. If the heart is trying to be one thing and the mind is trying to be another, they cannot just simply be.
Just be. Remain in flux, things will flow as they should.
Madeline
For what it's worth 